Day 23
I had an acquaintance who died when he was young. He knew he was dying and a few weeks before he died he told his buddies. When I die, go to my grave sometime and have a drink with me. For many years after he died, his friends would gather at his grave and raise a glass to him (actually it was a can--they were all beer drinkers!)
I've used that story to explain the Eucharist. His friends were fulfilling their friend's dying wish. We we celebrate the Eucharist we are fulfilling Jesus' dying wish. "Do this in memory of me."
After my parents died, many of my brothers and sisters would gather on their anniversary for Mass at Little Flower Parish. For several years, I always had a Mass on their anniversaries. There is a powerful connection between the Eucharist and death because it is really a connection to the resurrection.
I've said it before and I'll say it again. We cannot separate what happened on Holy Thursday from what happened on Good Friday from what happened on Easter Sunday. It all goes together for our salvation.